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4 Critical Issues Every Parent Must Address With Their Homosexual or Transgendered Child
Are you a parent of an adult child who recently disclosed their same-sex attraction?
This is for you!
You are probably in some stage of shock and have no idea how to respond to your child. You don’t want to under-react, overreact or panic!
I am going to give you my four most critical issues you need to respond to in order to respond EFFECTIVELY rather than reactively. Reacting is the normal response, but not effective in helping your child.
These four issues come from my fifteen years of working with parents as a therapist. I am calling them the “Big 4”. The Big 4 are issues every parent will respond to inevitability. After you absorb this content you will have the tools you need to respond well and create a foundation for change in your child.
Let’s get into the Big 4…
Causes of Homosexuality: Family Dynamics
While there are many causes of homosexuality, this tops the list. Wait, let’s back up. The gay community will tell you that there are no “causes” of homosexuality; a person is just born that way. In an earlier post, I debunked that myth. There is no body of research that proves that there is a gene that predetermines same-sex attraction or transsexualism. Among causes the contribution of family relationships is huge. In my experience the presence of family dynamics is present is 90% of the cases of same-sex-attraction and transsexualism.
3 Critical Questions Every Parent Must Ask
Your child’s same-sex attraction or transsexualism has been disclosed to you, the parent, and you are in shock, on edge. You never expected such a thing could happen in your family.
You have no knowledge of the gender subject other than what you see in the news. What are you going to do? How will you respond to your child?
Consider asking yourself these THREE CRITICAL QUESTIONS that will make a difference in your child’s future.